New to writing erotica? Don't know where to start? Think "love pole" is too frilly for you? Not quite the type to use "lick, suck and fuck" in your erotica as a descriptor (although those activities are quite fun aren't they). There are two categories of words you can pull from, the soft core and the hard core words. Depending on your comfort levels of course, personally.
A lot of people read the word "Erotica" and think pervert author. While there are some "perverts" out there, it isn't always the case. Is there a right way and a wrong way to write sexually explicit scenes in a book or erotic scenes? Yes and ... no. It was Harlequin that brought us the dawning of the racy book with flowery suggestions that left the reader having to imagine what the writer meant.